Book to Screen
You Deserve Each Other Is Getting a Movie and I'm So Excited (And You Should Be Too)
From page to screen: Why this divisive rom-com deserves its moment
I loved You Deserve Each Other. I mean, loved it. So when I heard it was being made into a movie, my book-lover heart did that excited leap.
The movie will follow Naomi (played by Meghann Fahy) and Nick (played by Penn Badgley), an engaged couple who secretly can't stand each other and try to sabotage their wedding with pranks. The adaptation stays true to Hogle's bestselling novel, known for its witty banter and heartfelt romance and is directed by Marc Silverstein and Abby Kohn, the duo behind He's Just Not That Into You, The Vow, and Never Been Kissed. Filming took place in New York in July 2025, produced by Amazon MGM Studios, Fifth Season, and Likely Story, with a mid-$20 million budget. No release date has been announced yet, but production wrapped in late summer.
The book itself was a two-time Goodreads Choice nominee for Best Romance and Best Debut and an Amazon Editors' Pick for Best Romance. But what's interesting is how divisive it remains. When I introduced it to my book club, half the room hated it. They couldn't stand Naomi — said she was immature, self-centered, and exhausting. And to be fair, she is. She miscommunicates, she's petty, and she weaponizes humor when she feels unseen. But that's also what makes her fascinating. She isn't the typical rom-com heroine with a neat moral arc; she's someone still learning how to be honest.
That's what many readers missed — that the book isn't about falling in love, but about falling apart and deciding what to rebuild. Naomi's flaws aren't random; they're the whole point. Her relationship with Nick feels like a slow unraveling, then a reconstruction — two people who've forgotten how to talk learning how to see each other again. It's frustrating, but also painfully human. And that's exactly what makes it worth adapting.
Meghann Fahy described the tone of the film as playful but grounded, similar to How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days — but with more bite. She said Naomi's character, like her, is layered: vulnerable, funny, occasionally cruel, but deeply human. Fahy's pairing with Penn Badgley is especially smart casting. He has that mix of restraint and intensity that can turn quiet frustration into chemistry. Around them, the supporting cast includes Natalie Morales, Justin Long, Kyle MacLachlan, Ana Gasteyer, and Hope Davis — a lineup that already feels like comfort viewing.
The film's tone matters because You Deserve Each Other has always been more self-aware than its title suggests. It's not just a second-chance romance; it's a quiet commentary on how relationships decay when performance replaces presence. It asks what happens when you stop trying to impress the person you love and start testing them instead. It's cynical, yes, but it's also refreshingly honest about how ugly love can get when people are scared of losing control.
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What makes You Deserve Each Other so refreshing is that it doesn't chase the fantasy of romance — it studies the performance of it. It's a story about what love looks like when the illusion cracks, when two people stop pretending and start daring each other to stay. In a time when most rom-coms still confuse vulnerability with charm, this one might finally get it right.
